Over the past year or two I’ve increasingly wanted to change some things about myself. To name a few, I’d like to be more forgiving of people who do wrong by me; more emotionally self-reliant (not needing other people to be happy and instead having my happiness come from myself); less prone to over-thinking and …
Monthly Archives: November 2012
Perspective From a Guy
I don’t usually do this, but here is something one of my male friends wrote about going out alone as a guy. I’ll post my response later, I just want to let this churn for a while right now. Yeah, it’s hard to get past. I”m still pretty self-conscious about it if it’s a new …
Avoiding Negativity
Just to be clear, do not try to derive happiness and positive energy from your relationships (well, at least not romantic relationships). Doing that is a quick fix but will not work in the long run, and will make you dependent. But you will find that relationships will be much better when you are a …